Anal training involves gradually preparing the body for anal penetration through a series of exercises and practices designed to enhance comfort and pleasure. Safe, patient play is key. This process can include activities like gay bottom training, which focuses on building tolerance and endurance for receptive anal sex. Depth training aims to safely increase the depth of penetration over time, while dildo and plug training involve using various sizes of toys to help stretch and relax the anal muscles. These practices emphasize the importance of relaxation, proper lubrication, and patience, helping individuals explore their bodies and enhance their sexual experiences safely and enjoyably.
DILDO TRAINING FOR DEPTH & Width PLAY
Below are a series of toys in order by size that are excellent toys to start your hole play and bottoming journey. Please remember to ALWAYS PLAY SAFE. Always use a toy with a base or balls, never put a toy all the way inside you, and always use plenty of lubricant. Listen to your body. I love recommending toys to people after experiencing so much toy testing myself. Stay away from PVC material dildos, they “grip” your insides and aren’t as comfortable. Also remember that toy materials can react with one another. Always store them separately or put them in bags to prevent toy reactions.
LUBE RECOMMENDATIONS
My favorite lube is X Lube. J Lube is an equal contender. Both lubes come in a powder form that need to be diluted in hot water to form a crystal clear, slick lube. My anatomy is sensitive to lots of different lubes. Some cause me a warm sensation, others give me a tingling feeling. Silicone lubes can react with toys and greasy lubes are tough to clean up. J lube and X Lube are easy cleanup with water and provide a very slick play experience.
SMALL TO LARGE TOYS ordered by size
The first series are my favorite toys made from Ultraskyn material that is incredible soft and gentle on your insides. Then we start to get into the larger toy stretchers. If you’re looking for a good series of toys to invest in to gradually build up in size without breaking the bank, these are excellent! Ultimately, it’s about finding the toys that feel the best for you, but based on my experience with hundreds of toys, these are my favorites. As you size up, you’ll start to replace your starter toy and climb the ladder.
The Perfect Dildo 7.5″ – DOC Johnson ULTRASKYN
The first toy is a great starter toy, just a little bigger than the upper dick size.
The Perfect P-Spot Dildo 9.5″ – DOC Johnson ULTRASKYN
This toy is slightly longer and wider than the first. It has a taper to it and a curve that you can use to start training opening up your second hole. Great stretch trainer to get up to the 2″ width margin.
The Perfect Dildo 10.5″ – DOC Johnson ULTRASKYN
This toy gets up to the 2.5″+ bracket where you’re starting to stretch more. It’s also a little longer. Perfect toy to ride and enjoy training with before getting to the larger sizes.
The Legendary John Holmes – 12 Inch DOC Johnson ULTRASKYN
This toy gets up to the 2.9″+ bracket where you’re starting to approach the 3″ diameter range. It’s also a little longer and really works your second hole open. This is what I consider the transition toy into the 3″+ range.
Realistic Hung – 12 Inch DOC JOHNSON ULTRASKYN
WOW, we’ve made it to Hung. This was a milestone for me. You’ve entered the 3″+ wide bracket. I absolutely love this toy. It’s uniform in thickness with a slight taper to thinner towards the base. Great toy to open up your sigmoid bend even more as it can go deeper.
The Legendary John Holmes – 12 Inch DOC Johnson ULTRASKYN
Hung and this toy are quite interchangeable, however this toy is slightly wider at the 3.25″ diameter level. I also prefer Hung as you can train depth more.
Butt Plug Trainers, Small to 3XL (6 sizes)
At this point you can decide what you want to do more of, depth or width training. You are also probably ready to start training for the fisting level of hole play. This series of plugs are EXCELLENT. Squishy, high-quality silicone without breaking the bank. Own them in every size from 2″ – 4.3″ diameter to really train your hole to stretch.
13 inch Realistic Huge Silicone Dildo
This is a big guy, and more textured and firm than the previous Ultraskyn toys. It will stretch you to the 3.3″ diameter mark and tapers to thinner at the base. It’s a beast, made from silicone.
